Life Skills Arcade Middle school Family and Consumer Sciences, grades 6 to 8

Handout 3.15

Handout 3.15: Fair Share Chart and Tradition Card

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Unit 3: Growing Up, Getting Along
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3.15

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Name: ______________________________ Date: ______________ Group: ______ Family card: ______

Directions: Part 1 is the list of jobs a home needs; sort your do now list into it. Part 2 is your fictional family card (the teacher tells your group which one). Part 3 is the fair-share chart: every job gets a name, and every assignment that is not equal gets a "why." Part 4 is the tradition card, by choice. The exit card is at the bottom. The family on your card is fictional. Nobody is asked what chores they do at home.

Part 1: The jobs a home needs

DailyWeeklyBackground (easy to forget)
Make mealsLaundry (wash, dry, fold, put away)Pay bills
Wash dishesClean the bathroomFix what breaks
Take out trash and recyclingVacuum or sweepMake appointments (doctor, dentist)
Feed and walk petsGrocery shoppingKeep the list of what is running out
Wipe the table and countersChange the sheetsSign forms and check homework
Put things awayErrands (pharmacy, returns)Plan the week
Help a younger sibling get readyYard, plants, or the building's shared spaceDrive or arrange rides

Star the jobs a 12 to 14 year old could do alone. Circle the jobs that need an adult.

Words in other languages:

EnglishTurkishPortugueseSpanish
choreev işitarefa domésticaquehacer
fairadiljustojusto
equaleşitigualigual
traditiongelenektradiçãotradición
culturekültürculturacultura

Part 2: The family cards

Family A (grade 6 support). Four people. A parent who works days (home by 5:30, 3 hours free on weeknights, 8 on weekend days). A second parent who works days (same hours). A 13 year old (school until 3, 2 hours free on weeknights, 6 on weekend days). An 8 year old (school until 3, 1 hour of jobs on weeknights at most, 2 on weekend days). No pets.

Family B (everyone). Five people. A parent who works days (home by 6, 2 hours free weeknights, 7 weekend days). A grandmother who lives with them and cannot lift or carry anything heavy but is home all day (4 hours weekdays, 4 weekend days). A 14 year old with practice Monday to Thursday until 5:30 (1 hour free on those nights, 3 on Friday, 6 on weekend days). A 12 year old (2 hours weeknights, 6 weekend days). A 4 year old (can put toys away and "help"; 30 minutes at most). One dog.

Family C (grade 8 stretch). Four people. A single parent who works nights (leaves at 9 p.m., home at 7 a.m., sleeps 8 a.m. to 3 p.m.; 3 hours free late afternoon, 6 on the two days off). A grandfather who lives with them and cannot lift (3 hours a day). A 14 year old with practice four days a week until 5:30 (1 hour those nights, 3 on the other weeknight, 6 weekend days). A 2 year old (no jobs). One cat.

Part 3: The fair-share chart

Every job on the list gets a name. Nobody under 6 gets a job that is not "help" or "put toys away." Nobody gets more than their hours allow. Any assignment that is not equal gets a "why" from the card (hours, age, ability).

JobWho does itHow oftenWhy (if not equal)
Make meals (weeknights)
Make meals (weekends)
Wash dishes
Trash and recycling
Pets
Wipe table and counters
Put things away
Help the youngest get ready
Laundry
Clean the bathroom
Vacuum or sweep
Grocery shopping
Change sheets
Errands
Yard or shared space
Pay bills
Fix what breaks
Appointments
The running list
Forms and homework check
Plan the week
Rides

Read one "not equal but fair" line to the class: ________________________________________________

Stretch (Family C): What should the 14 year old NOT be asked to do, and why? ________________________________________________

Stretch: If the parent's hours change to days, what changes on the chart? ________________________________________________

Part 4: Culture and traditions

A family teaches culture without a lesson plan: the food on the table, the language at home, what happens on a holiday, how you greet an elder, what the family does on a Sunday. A tradition is one of the ways a family does "belong."

One tradition from a show, a book, or a fictional family: ________________________________________________

The tradition card (by choice)

Cut this out or copy it onto an index card. You may write a tradition from your own family, from a family you have seen, or one you would like to start. Nobody reads it aloud unless they want to. Name is optional. It goes on the unit wall and joins the Family Showcase in Lesson 3.18.

A family tradition I would share
The tradition:
When it happens:
What it teaches or why it matters:
Keep, change, or pass on? Why?
Name (optional):

Exit card: 3-2-1

3 home jobs I could do alone this week: ______________ ______________ ______________

2 words that mean different things: fair means ______________________; equal means ______________________

1 tradition (from any family, real or fictional) and whether I would keep, change, or pass it on: ______________________